Patience

Never lie to yourself just to make yourself believe that you're over something when you really aren't. Lying to yourself is only going to put a hold in the process of getting through whatever it is you're going through. Be honest with yourself, address you're problem and give yourself time. Time is afterall, given to you in order to be to take care of yourself and figure out what you have to do to make it through the days to come and how you're going to handle all your obstacles? No one can really give you set time line as to when exactly you're suppossed to get over something or someone, but there's no rush and no pressure. You'll get through what you need to in the right time; in God's right time for you.
Persevere to love yourself and pick yourself up whenever someone or something gets you down and respect yourself enough to understand all that you're feeling. The only way you'll get through any obstacle is to know what the problem is in order to work through it. And remember that everything happens for a reason. God would never allow anything to take place in your life if there was no real reason behind it. The message may be blurry at first, but the picture becomes clearer every time you take a step closer. So be patient, trust in yourself, and trust in God. Patienct may not always come easy, but haste isn't always the best way to go because when you rush things sometimes the end product isn't complete. Then you'll find yourself back at sqaure one.